Time for a change?

Does he still make you happy?

If the answer is ‘no’ then perhaps it is time for a change?  If you are in a relationship where he makes you feel unhappy then why would you stay?  I know that it is hard, especially if there are children involved but having experienced it myself I can truly say that it is better for your kids to live with one happy parent and see the other regularly than live in an atomosphere where there is stress and constant arguing.

Is your self-esteem low and your confidence at an all time low?  This is probably a result of your relationship and trust me they will all improve greatly once you are out there living again.  Once you realise that you can cope on your own there will be no stopping you.  Of course it doesn’t all happen over night – it will take time but it will happen.

Of course it could just be that you are just not happy because you have fallen out of love and for no other reason than that!  If you don’t love him then it is definitely time to end it as it is not fair on either of you.  You both deserve the chance of happiness and he deserves the chance of being with someone who truly loves him – in fact you both do!

If you are not happy then you need to look at your relationship and decide if it is worth saving.  If it’s not then move on and make the change!