Spot the cheat

Could he really be cheating on you?

The first and most important thing in this situation is to keep a level head.  Of course the immediate reaction is to go hysterical and then get angry followed by lots of tears and chocolate while asking yourself why.

In fact in most cases the fear is unfounded.  Unfortunately, because we have emotions like jealousy, we tend to go off like a rocket before thinking about it clearly.

There are many things to consider first, such as how old the relationship is?  Is it a serious relationship for both of you?  There is no point in planning revenge if you only met a week ago.  Perhaps he doesn’t see it as serious.  Do you really think it is serious?

How did you find out he was cheating?  Are you actually sure he was cheating?  There are so many questions that need to have clear answers.

Tell us your stories.

Have you caught your man cheating?

Have you been embarassed to find out he wasn’t cheating after you accused him?

And, if he was, how did you deal with it?