Online flirting

So, you are on a social networking site and you have made friends with a guy on there.  You chat regularly and have a laugh, but then the inuendos start and some flirting between the two of you starts and some sexual tension builds between you both.  Great…..if you are single, but what happens when you are in a relationship?  Do you see it as just some harmless fun with someone that you will never see?  Would your other half see it as just that?

How would you feel if you discovered your other half doing the same thing?  Image finding on screen conversations between him and another girl filled with sexual inuendos etc.  Would you be happy?  If you and your partner both agree it’s ok and there’s no harm in it then that’s great but, if you feel the need to keep it a secret surely that means you think or know it’s wrong?

Some relationships have been destroyed because of people flirting online due to the face that their other halves cannot accept that this is ok when you are in a relationship.  Many partners worry that if you can do this online then you can do it in real life and cannot seperate the two.

Personally I think if you are heading down that road with someone you have met online then you perhaps need to look at why you feel the need to engage in sexual conversations and flirting with someone you don’t know…….are you happy in your relationship?  Maybe that is something you need to look at!