Should I sleep with him on the first date?

Well, now there’s a question!

I suppose it’s a personal decision but most people think that sleeping with someone on the first date invariably means that the relationship won’t last the pace but you might get a few weeks of great sex out of it.

There again, I know of people who were so attracted to someone they had the most amazing sex the first night they met and are now married and very, very happy.

The risk you take is, if you are someone who is looking for a relationship then you have to be prepared that when you are on a night out someone who has had a few drinks and wants to have sex with you will say a lot of the right things and will walk away the next morning promising to call you and is never to be seen again!  If you can cope with that and are not bothered whether he doesn’t call or not then it’s ok but so many girls are left feeling worthless and not understanding why he didn’t call.  The answer to that is simple he just wanted sex, nothing more, nothing less.

Many would say the best way to find out whether someone wants more than just a ‘quickie’ is to not give in and see if they call.  Chances are if they call you then they want more than sex and perhaps things might have a future!